May Quota Daw Ang Pag Ibig

This is very very timely, esp. now that Valentine is near. Basahin nyo pramis, you’ll love it. Enjoy!

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Mula sa librong “Para kay B” (o kung paano dinevastate ng pag-ibig ang 4 out of 5 sa atin) ni Ricky Lee

“May nagsabi na Relative ang pagiging masaya pero hindi ba excuse lang yan ng mga malulungkot..”

Ito ang teorya ng Writer:


Me quota ang pag-ibig. Sa bawat limang umiibig, isa lang ang magiging maligaya.
Ang iba, iibig sa di sila iniibig. O iibig nang di natututo. O iibig na wala. O di iibig kailanman.

Ang iba’y iibig sa maling panahon, umibig na noong 1980s, nakipagmartsa sa mga aktibista, pero ang taong nakatakda para sa kanya ay nabuhay noon pang 1930s, isang rebelde laban sa mga amerikano, matagal nang namatay. Kaya she keeps falling in love sa mga lalaking mas matatanda hinahanap sa kanila ang di mahanap na wala, hindi mapagtagpo ang kahapon at ang kasalukyan.

May mga pusong pinaglalaruan. Nasa parehong building ng call center but they will never realize that they are on the same floor. Maski parang laging may strange force na humihila sa kanila para tumingin sa kabilang building. Kailanman ay di sila magtatagpo. Tanungin man siya ng boyfriend niya kung ano iyong lagi niyang tinitignan sa kabila ay di niya masasagot. At kailanman ay di niya malalaman dahil eventually ang lalaki ay lilipat sa ibang lugar, at siya, hanggang sa mamatay, di na niya malalaman kung sino nga iyong nasa kabila. *this explains why minsan parati akong nakatingin sa kawalan, hahaha, gora nga ketch sa kabilang building, ahahah, baka maabutan ko pa lol*

Merong pinalad na nagkakilala, nagkaibigan at nagsama. Pero sa di malamang dahilan ay iniwan ng babae ang lalaki. Mabubuhay ang lalaki sa walang hanggang paghahanap. Mari-realize niya na ang pag-ibig ay laging paghahanap. Pero hindi niya kailanman mahahanap ang babae dahil ang totoong hindi niya mahanap ay ang kanyang sarili. *well, sabi ng ng Boyzone lol, don’t stop looking for love”

Merong away nang away kapag magkasama pero hindi naman kaya ang makahiwalay. Merong nagmamahal lamang kapag nananakit. Meron relihiyon ang humaharang, o katayuan sa buhay, o mga magulang. Merong sila mismo ang gumagawa ng harang. *uy, Mitchie, statue? hahaha*

this is my fevorit –> Merong umiibig na habang nagtatagal ay lalong nawawalan ng IQ *pasok sa bangaaa!* Merong pag umibig ay napupundi ang 4 out of 5 senses, touch lang ang natitira. Merong ang tingin sa pag-ibig ay tali. Meron di makahakbang dahil sa pag-ibig at merong namang nakakalipad. Merong ang tingin sa pag-ibig ay hapunang walang sawsawan. Merong pag umibig ay nahaharap sa salamin, sarili ang sinasamba *EX, statue?* Merong ang tingin sa pag-ibig ay parusa.

Ang iba’y iibig sa hayop, dahil noong unang panahon ay mga hayop sila *palagay ko, tama si Ricky Lee, kase ang ex ko eh umibig at pinagpalit ako sa isang HAYUP, hahaha* Ang iba’y iibig sa mga bahay, kinikilig kapag hinahaplos ang barandilya, nalilibugan sa mga kisame, pinagnanasaan ang sahig *hahahah* Patuloy silang mananakit sa mga babaing umiibig sa kanila dahil hindi nila kailanman malalaman ang puso nila ay gawa sa kahoy *ganyang-ganyan ang EX ko!!! AS IN*

Pero merong isa sa lima, harangan man ng kulog, ng ganid, ng lindol, ng teknolohiya, mahahanap niya ang kanyang mahal. Siya lang ang magiging maligaya. *wow, you are soo lucky*

CONCLUSION:

Hindi mo pwedeng mahalin ang isang tao nang hindi mo minamahal ang hilaga, silangan, timog at kanluran ng kanyang paniniwala *flangaanaaa!!!* Kapag nagmahal ka’y dapat mong tanggapin bawat letra ng kanyang birth certificate. Kasama na doon ang kanyang libag, utot at bad breath. Pero me limit. Pantay-pantay ang ibinibigay na karapatan sa lahat ng tao upang lumigaya, o masaktan, o magpakagago, pero kapag sumara na ang mga pinto, nawasak na ang mga puso, nawala na ang mga kaluluwa at ang bilang ay umabot na sa zero, goodbye na. Pero, the memory of that one great but broken love will still sustain you, tama nga na mas matindi ang mga alaala.

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Uulitin ko lang, the memory of that one great but broken love will still sustain you.

Tandaan nyo yan, kayong mga BITTER ha. Goodbye na sa bitterness, ok. Move on na tayo hahhaha. So to you EX, thank you for all the memories. And it’s good to see you on Facebook. May baby na pala kayo, I am happy for you, trulili yan…ang saya-saya ko kase…..hinde cute yung baby nyo hahahhaha.

 

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Flames Hope

OMG. Valentine is coming very soon. Parang last year lang I spent it alone ah, and look at me now, am still spending it alone bwahaha (just so you know, am not bitter spending it alone, ok? lol, defensive hahaha) Naalala ko tuloy ang pers ever crush ko. Asan na kaya yun. Eh syempre, sobrang finesse ako noon, walang kiyeme, todo deny akong crush ko yung crush ko. Kinikimkim ko lahat, dinadaan ko  sa FLAMES HOPE!!! I’m sure, noong mga bata pa kayo, walang humpay din ang kaka-FLAMES HOPE nyo noh. Do you remember how it feels? Hayy, how time flies.

Wondering if you and your crush are meant for each other? Your favorite childhood game is back to reveal your destinies! Hinde nyo na kelangan bolpen and cocomban kase DIGITAL na sya.

Check out this DIGITAL FLAMES HOPE to see if you and your crush are meant to be. Enjoy!

 

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The Joy of Singlehood

When a girl reached 30+++ and still single, there is a greater chance that she ends up living alone, unmarried and successful but maybe, not quite happy.

I am not yet 30 (will be in a COUPLE of yearssss) but just thinking about it (30++, single, unattached and hopefully rich) scares the hell out of me LOL. I just have this feeling that when you’re nearly crossing the finish line, you’re bound to  be single for the rest of your life, I am not generalizing of course, esp. now that many career women prefer to marry  in their 30s, but survey showed that very few male respondents felt okay to marry a 30-year-old. Alright, I sounded really desperate saying that hahaha.

Seriously, my dream of becoming the perfect bride, wearing the perfect bridal gown, bridal jewelry and bridal shoes from stylehive.com is yet to come because I am still enjoying my singlehood. Instead of romancing another person, I’m happy spending my life romancing life for all its worth.

I know it’s kinda pathetic, but being single means I don’t have to keep stalking YOU in Friendster. I love it that I can go out anytime I want, whenever I want. I love it that I don’t have to suffer from the annoyances of having a partner who keeps on asking my whereabouts. I am not pressured on being in my best and sweetest self all the time. I don’t have to worry if my nails aren’t polished, if my hair is frizzy, if I eat a lot or eat less, if I partied through the wee hours of the morning (which I don’t do), if I don’t textback or callback, if I roll on the floor laughing out loud, if I speak in chenes-tongues,  if I walk the streets of Carriedo/Quiapo/Divisoria for hours etc. Plus, I’m saving myself from insecurities, heartaches, headaches and the green-eyed-monster. FREEDOM IT IS!! I’m single and I’m fine, thank you for asking.

Don’t get me wrong here. I do not detest happy couples. And if you’re in a bllisfull relationship, I wouldn’t want you to get out from it. I’m getting there sooner or later but for now,  I’m quite happy that I can do MOORREE by just embracing my singleness, like:

1. I can stay in front of the computer for straight 15 hours

2. I can do DVD marathon for straight 12 hours (CSI Seasons 1-5, Prison Break 1-2, Ugly Betty, Kyle XY, korean flicks, Meteor Garden, Hwang Jini, Jang Geum, Smallville, Grey’s, OTH)

3. I can stay awake the whole night just blogging, youtubing and partly chatting

4. I can watch 5 movies (straight) during rest day

5. I can stay at home couched at the sofa for hours doing nothing

6. I can read books from cover to cover several times, to the point of memorizing the lines

7. I can survive without using cellphone, landline but spare my DSL connection, ok.

8. I can spend many many hours with my gurlfriends eating out, watching movies and talking loud at each other

9. I can go somewhere else without ever worrying if YOU have eaten your breakfast, lunch and dinner

10. I don’t feel crying over petty things

Plus many many other things. Yah know, it’s great to be single. Boring? Am I missing anything? Nope. I’d say, I’m living my BEST LIFE NOW whether YOU believe it or not.

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A Story of Dedication, Hope and Love

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Have you heard the inspiring story of Team Hoyt? It is a remarkable story of dedication, hope and love. Dick Hoyt and his son Rick Hoyt, compete together in marathons, triathlons, and other athletic endeavors, including the Ironman – the toughest triathlon ever, includes three endurance events of a 2.4 mile (3.86 kilometer) ocean swim, followed by a 112 mile (180.2 kilometer) bike ride, and ending with a 26.2 mile (42.195 kilometer) marathon along the coast of the Big Island. Here’s what’s really inspiring about this father and son bonding, Rick has cerebral palsy, which makes it impossible for him to walk or talk. His father pulls him in a special boat as they swim, carries him in a special seat up front as they bike, and pushes him in a special wheelchair as they run. Watching their inspirational journey together makes me realize that  no matter how desperate the situation is…and when it seems that no one is left hanging in there for you…look up…you have a Father in heaven who carries you through His loving arms.

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On Falling Down and Standing Up

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Was out walking last night, on my way to the jeep station, I tripped and fell flat on the ground. It hurts you know, and it’s still hurting. After a few sec., I collected myself, stood tall, laughed at my clumsiness and continued walking with injured knees and broken sandals.

I realize, life’s pretty much like that. Minsan sa buhay kailangan nating madapa….para agaw eksena HAHAHAHA. Bwiseeet talaga. Sayang ang sandals.

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Words of Wisdom from Bob Ong

Here’s a very insightful and funny post for everyone to enjoy.  Utang na loob, isapuso nyo!

1. “Kung hindi mo mahal ang isang tao, wag ka nang magpakita ng motibo para mahalin ka nya..”

2. “Huwag mong bitawan ang bagay na hindi mo kayang makitang hawak ng iba.”

3. “Huwag mong hawakan kung alam mong bibitawan mo lang.”

4. “Huwag na huwag ka hahawak kapag alam mong may hawak ka na.” AHHAHHAHA, ano ba kase yang hawak hawak na yan??

5. “Parang elevator lang yan eh, bakit mo pagsisiksikan ung sarili mo kung walang pwesto para sayo. Eh meron naman hagdan, ayaw mo lang pansinin.”  Nakakapagod kaya ang magpanhik-panaog sa hagdan, hello?!

6. “Kung maghihintay ka nang lalandi sayo, walang mangyayari sa buhay mo…dapat lumandi ka din.” LOL, o sya sya, maglalandi na ngaaaa hahahah

7. “Pag may mahal ka at ayaw sayo, hayaan mo. Malay mo sa mga susunod na araw ayaw mo na din sa kanya, naunahan ka lang.” Flangaaaanaaaa!!! hahahah

8. “Hiwalayan na kung di ka na masaya. Walang gamot sa tanga kundi pagkukusa.”

9. “Pag hindi ka mahal ng mahal mo wag ka magreklamo. Kasi may mga tao rin na di mo mahal pero mahal ka.. Kaya quits lang.”

10. “Kung dalawa ang mahal mo, piliin mo yung pangalawa. Kasi hindi ka naman magmamahal ng iba kung mahal mo talaga yung una.”

11. “Hindi porke’t madalas mong ka-chat, kausap sa telepono, kasama sa mga lakad o ka-text ng wantusawa eh may gusto sayo at magkakatuluyan kayo. Meron lang talagang mga taong sadyang friendly, sweet, flirt, malandi, pa-fall o paasa.” Paging chuvachienes, pinapatamaan ka oh LOL

12. “Huwag magmadali sa babae o lalaki. Tatlo, lima, sampung taon, mag-iiba ang pamantayan mo at maiisip mong hindi pala tamang pumili ng kapareha dahil lang maganda o nakakalibog ito. Totong mas mahalaga ang kalooban ng tao higit sa anuman. Sa paglipas ng panahon, maging ang mga crush ng bayan nagmumukha ding pandesal, maniwala ka.” Anak ng tokwaaaa hahahahha maging ang mga crush ng bayan nagmumukha ding pandesal

13. “Minsan kahit ikaw ang nakaschedule, kailangan mo pa rin maghintay, kasi hindi ikaw ang priority.” Ouch!

14. “Mahirap pumapel sa buhay ng tao. Lalo na kung hindi ikaw yung bida sa script na pinili nya.”

15. “Alam mo ba kung gaano kalayo ang pagitan ng dalawang tao pag nagtalikuran na sila? Kailangan mong libutin ang buong mundo para lang makaharap ulit ang taong tinalikuran mo.”

16. “Mas mabuting mabigo sa paggawa ng isang bagay kesa magtagumpay sa paggawa ng wala”

17. “Hindi lahat ng kaya mong intindihin ay katotohan, at hindi lahat ng hindi mo kayang intindihin ay kasinungalingan” I totally agree.

18. “Kung nagmahal ka ng taong di dapat at nasaktan ka, wag mong sisihin ang puso mo. Tumitibok lng yan para mag-supply ng dugo sa katawan mo. Ngayon, kung magaling ka sa anatomy at ang sisisihin mo naman ay ang hypothalamus mo na kumokontrol ng emotions mo, mali ka pa rin! Bakit? Utang na loob! Wag mong isisi sa body organs mo ang mga sama ng loob mo sa buhay! Tandaan mo: magiging masaya ka lang kung matututo kang tanggapin na hindi ang puso, utak, atay o bituka mo ang may kasalanan sa lahat ng nangyari sayo, kundi IKAW mismo!” Aray ko ha

19. “Pakawalan mo yung mga bagay na nakakasakit sa iyo kahit na pinasasaya ka nito. Wag mong hintayin ang araw na sakit na lang ang nararamdaman mo at iniwan ka na ng kasiyahan mo.” Hinde ko kaya huhuhu bwaahahahhahahha charing lang

20. “Gamitin ang puso para alagaan ang mga taong malalapit sa iyo. Gamitin ang utak para alagaan ang sarili mo.”

21. “Ang pag-ibig parang imburnal…nakakatakot mahulog…at kapag nahulog ka, it’s either by accident or talagang tanga ka..”

Enjoy =)

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Giving Is Loving

Yey, it’s 57 days to go. Can’t wait.

My favourite time of year is the period between Christmas and New Year. Don’t you just love that season? When I think about some of my happiest memories, Christmas always comes to mind. You know I grew up in a closed knit big family. At Christmas, we always gather at my aunt’s house to enjoy, not only the delicious food, but also to enjoy dancing, singing and each other, as well. We always have such great times during Holidays. What I enjoy the most is the gift giving time. Do you love giving gifts? I do. Each year, I spend lots of money lol to buy stuff for my family, friends and many godchildren. They may not be that expensive but I make sure they’re really special. I find joy and satisfaction in giving. When I was young, I didn’t get many gifts. I was deprived, if I may say. LOL. The only thing I remember getting from my godmother was a pair of pink sandals and it didn’t even fit in, but it made me extremely happy. Such memory is still vivid and I always smile whenever I look back at that moment in my life.

Giving is loving, indeed. Don’t you just feel special when someone gives you a gift? It’s a powerful thing. It’s one gesture that can bring sunshine to a gloomy day. It can sometimes make an enormous difference to a person. Although a hug, a kiss or even a genuine smile can make people happy already, giving material things can make people happier. It is an expression of love. When I started earning some money, I made sure I allot a special budget to share to my family and friends. I can be very generous at times. It’s my way of giving back to the world what it has given me.

If you’re looking for a perfect gift to give your family and friends, check out this Holiday Gift Baskets from winecountrygiftbaskets.com. Send them a glorious basket filled with three fine wines from Sterling Vintner’s Collection – a ripe and fruity merlot, vanilla and chocolate. Guaranteed that all gift selection are of of highest quality with the best value available.

I encourage you to practice giving everyday. It’s good for the heart. Let’s not make Christmas the only time to give. It should be a daily action, even in just simple things. Remember, God loves a genuine and cheerful giver.

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Ways To Melt A Woman’s Heart

There are many things that make a woman weak at the knees. Here are some tips that might be helpful to you. Read on!

1. Ask her to dance.
2. Kiss her between her shoulder blades when she turns her back to you to go to sleep.
3. Call her when you’re feeling sad.
4. Kiss her eyelids, cheeks, forehead and lips.
5. Send her something in the mail. Anything.
6. Try desperately to make her laugh when she’s feeling down.
7. Hug her when she gets jealous. Hug her hard.
8. Give her stuff toys.
9. Kiss her hand in front of your buddies.
10. And lastly, send her flowers esp. when you screw up.

My friend is not the type who gush over the beauty of flowers, but when she got one from her secret admirer, it brought a lovely smile to her face the whole day and I knew she was beginning to fall in love with him. Now, they’re living together! Such a happy ending love story, it makes me green with envy LOL. I haven’t met a single woman who got annoyed when tey received flowers. You know why flowers evoke such positive reactions on women? Could it be because flowers are beautiful and sometimes expensive? More than that, I guess what makes it really special for women is the meaning and thought behind it. Guess it’s the thought that really counts, right?

Have you tried sending flowers to your crush, girlfriend, fiance, sisters and mom? If you haven’t tried it yet, take my advice, be it a single strand, a dozen  or bouquet, it will surely melt the heart of the woman you adore. If you’re looking for  highest quality and greatest selection of fresh cut  wholesale flowers , shop at BloomsByTheBox.com. They’re lovely and very affordable too.

To a lot of women, it does not really matter what flower you send them, of course, except funeral flowers LOL. They will still feel beautiful and special and it doesn’t matter if it’s from the garden or if it comes delivered as a surprise. The fact that you took the time to send roses as a reminder of your love and affection is enough to keep her smiling like a love-struck teenager for the rest of the day.

Keep loving even if it hurts you big time. Later,  there can be no more pain, only more love. Ciao!! Mwaaahuggs to all!

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Brida By Paulo Coelho

After hearing so many good feedbacks about Paulo Coelho, I finally decided to read one of his books to find out if they’re true. At this very moment, I am juggling between writing this post and reading Brida. Hahaha. First thing first, I love the cover! I haven’t finished it yet but so far, I’m liking it. The theme is interesting – finding your soulmate and stuff like that. Many women who go through at different stages in their life can relate to this book. Sold at National Bookstore for P455.00. Here’s one quote I’d like to share to you guys:

“Finding something important in life does not mean that you must give up everything else”

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My Most Disastrous Date Ever

He’s so ‘angas’.

He was the typical bully type…one of the guys who cuts classes, drops difficult subjects and the playboy in the batch. You know that type of person whose presence is sooo annoying? That’s just like him. On the later part of our college years, he tried to befriend me. We hardly talk in school since we’re not on the same block so whenever there’s a chance, he would come around and say ‘hi’. He asked for my number and he called me every night, and I avoided him most of the time. Yeah, call me a snob slash hard-to-get slash feeling-maganda! Honestly, I was enjoying the attention he’s giving me that time. And you surely know how it feels when someone treats you so kind. I don’t know what happened but all of a sudden, he was all nice and sweet to me. And from our conversations, I found out na he’s just maangas lang in the outside, but inside, he was a gentle kuya to his siblings, a very loving son to his mom.  Plus, he is very talented too.

It was his birthday and he invited me for a dinner date. I still didn’t trust the guy so I brought along 2 of my friends (not one but 2!) on our first ever and last date! He was shocked ’cause I never told him I’ll bring alalays with me hahaha. masama ba yun? We even got there a little late (like 30mins. late hahaha).  Earlier that day, I was busy the whole morning ’til afternoon in the youth organizaton I was actively affiliated with. My hair was fuzzy, my face was probably oily already and I was looking really haggard with my tshirt, rubbershoes and eastpak bag. It looked like I didn’t prepare for the ‘date’ but I did.

I was such a silly girl even back then and whenever I look back at it, I can’t help but laugh. Imagine, I ate like a man that night. I was the first to finish the food. The girls I brought along were so discreet they weren’t even laughing out loud. I was.  What’s worse was, I even hurried to get home since it was a little late (8PM) and guess what, since I was with my 2 lovely friends I totally forgot it was his birthday…I didn’t even wish him a happy bday. I didn’t even brought a gift..kahit picture frame man lang hahaha. It was a disaster. Ewan ko siguro sinadya ko yun dahil masyadong feelingera ang lowla nyo. 

He didn’t call me that night. Was he turned off? I guess. His calls became frequent…I still avoided him, on the phone and in school….call it pride or whatever….until he stopped calling and we parted ways. No closure. Care ko. Was I affected? Of course.

Recently, after almost 6 years of no contact and communication, I received an unlikely call for him. Whoa! I was flattered. After all these years, he still remember me and I was like feeling sooo pretty. He searched me on Friendster and have called me, when in truth, I wasn’t being nice and cooperative to him for as long as I can remember.

We talked for one hour, sa cellphone mga daiii! Reminiscing the good old times…taking about life and career. Yeah, I was pretending to be finessed and matured, acting like really witty and career oriented all grown up woman. Hey, I wanted to impress the guy (again) but it turned out the other way. Bat parang ako ang na-impress. I was so shocked to find out he’s working as a big time engineer in a big time telecoms company. He’s got a budding career, a car, a house of his own…with his lovely wifey and kids. Akala ko pa naman…dead na dead ang mokong at hinde maka move on dahil nga walang closure! Hmpt! Naloka aketch.

I don’t know but I guess he just called again because he wanted me to see his success and how fulfilled he is right now with his beautiful family while I, along with my arrogance, am still unattached and trying to prove my worth to the world.

Ouch, it really hurts you know…and it’s still hurting. LOL

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