Where do you usually get the topics to write on your blog/s? If you’re maintaining several blogs, like me, I’m sure you have had this dilemma. One thing I can advise you is to have different focus or theme on each otherwise, you’re gonna run out of words to say. *what a brilliant idea, hahaha* Of course, you have thought about it, hinde na kelangang i-memorize yan. I just mentioned it because I’ve been having a hard time coming up with a topic to write this morning. I seriously need to UPGRADE my brain – 5 Gig RAM, Pentium 5, triple core so I can think and write faster. LOL
I woke up 4am today, checked my emails, listened to my playlist, had a hearty breakfast, finished updating my 2 other blogs and after several hours, I still haven’t come up with something to write in here. I took a bath and after that first spill of cold water on my friggin head, something struck me and got me thinking. Hahaha. So, the moral for today is to take a bath first whenever you’re out of words to blog. It will give you that fresh perspective on things around you. Hahaha
Going back to the title of this post, it’s like Ken of Barbie versus Shrek, Prince William versus the likes of Manny, Empoy, Bayani, Jose, etc. noh?
Do you ever wonder why there are some not-so-good looking guys who end up with gorgeous girls? How was it possible? I say it’s because of that magic called CHARM. Do you know where I can purchase it? I think it’s similar to appeal, charisma, sex appeal, x factor, aura etc. You know a charming person when you see one. Those ultra likeable person who seems to magnet people around him/her. And yes dear readers, that is not an inborn thing. You can actually learn it! Ok, I’m not even that super charming to begin with. Hahaha. But I’d like to believe that I got some. Guts, I have plenty. In my own observation, I think these charming people are the ones who:
- smile a lot – genuine smile that is.
- dress better
social climbsocialize with others easily
- feel good about themselves and make others feel good about themselves too
- funny and exudes positivity in all manners
- are smart
Charm can last forever but good looks, they’re just there as long as they last. It’s very superficial. And in my opinion, you’re most likely to succeed if you are charming. People of all ages and lifestyles will get near you, while those who are SNOB and those who can be very vain, they repel people. Hinde ka na nga kagwapuhan/kagandahan tapos SNOB ka pa, gudlak di ba? And although good looking people have the best opportunities in life, they don’t always end up as the happiest people in this world. I’ve seen people who look macho gwapito naman but they’re living a wasted life. They end up in failed relationships, unhappy marriage with no job. You can be a WENTWORTH-look-alike but if you’re not smart enough and you don’t know how to get along with people, your looks is as good as nothing. While the CHARMING people, they can always live a happy life and they share this good vibes to the people around them.
It would have been better if you have the looks and charm at the same time. But for us, who’s part of the brown race humanity, I am not saying na we’re all ugly ha pero diba in this world, beauty is defined as someone who is mestiza/mestizo, slender/tall, with pointed nose, lovely sparkling eyes and Brazilian body – all of which we might not have – How are you going to compete? What do you do if you weren’t blessed with good looks? Be CHARMING instead and I’m sure you’ll hit it big time.
If I have it another way, I’d rather have GOOD LOOKS kase for me, you can learn to be CHARMING anytime you want. But to have GOOD LOOKS? Well, you’ll have to change your parents, your kanunununuan , your bones and genes to get one. Hahahah
And in choosing a partner, I’d probably hook up with a charming guy like Vhong Navarro. Divanetch?
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Just blog when you feel like, or when you know it’s “bloggable”. When I’m just starting, I always feel that way but now (that my blog has grown on me) – what comes in mind and in if I had my mood, (crap or noteworthy) I just write it down.
And oh, this theme is too “hardcore” but you managed to fill-in stuff (Ms Clutter, whatelse?) hehehehe kaya lang bakit yung sidebars parang nag oppps pababa when I’m commenting?
Keep blogging Malen, blog what you love – that is, magpatawa.
My best ideas come to me in the shower too! The reason why i can easily spend half an hour in the shower.
You ask, “Do you ever wonder why there are some not-so-good looking guys who end up with gorgeous girls?”
You are partly right that it is charm. But what came to my mind first was MONEY! Think Donald Trump! Hahaha!
Like K, i also write down things that interest me. Kasi biglang mawawala na naman ang idea kung di mo isusulat. Sa akin kasi, keyword lang type agad sa celpone para di malimutan haha. Just keep on blogging Malen. Keep up!
the best tip ever! MALIGO NGA DAPAT MUNA! ha ha ha!
you’re getting the hang of it (juggling 3 blogs ) goodluck inday…nakaya ko, kaya mo rin..but do take care of yourself too, ok?
btw, I have a tag for you: http://dagboek.thesserie.com/?p=959
thanks!
haha. reading your list, masasabi kong charming pala ako. hehe.
sa amin ng friends ko, looks is not a major factor, mas malaki ang porsyento ng personality. hehe.
ayunnnnn, kaya pala, makaligo nga muna.
Amen!!teehehee O nga naman,maligo muna baka umaalingasaw amoy abot oyropa o amerika,hehe Mamuah, totally agree with your title but ofcourse as Mogs pointed out, looks does not matter as long as you own tall buildings in Manhattan,lol
Love your new theme btw manay! besos to ya!!
Hello malen – - grabe – yan ba walang i-bla blog eh ang ganda nga ng topic mo. Basta ang alam ko – you have these traits already (dagdag sa kagandahan monetch!!)
* smile a lot – genuine smile that is.
* dress better
*socialize with others easily
* feel good about themselves and make others feel good about themselves too
* funny and exudes positivity in all manners
* are smart
So, don’t worry – maganda ka inside and out! (read: libre mo ko pag-uwi ko. gusto ko trip to baguio)
Saken, laging sinasabi nila – ang ganda daw ng inside ko!!!!!! letche sila!!!!!!!!
Chuva
minority ba aketch? bakit ako good looks plus charm pah! hahahahha JOKE LANG PO =)
pd rin kayo maniwala
honga pala nalimutan ko magcomment sa template, naninibago ko simple pero rock, nakarir mo rin mare!
It’s very easy to come up with an article to write. What you do is read the news, especially the most read. Then come up with basic words. You know, that ones that I was teaching. For example, I can write a blog entry about you.
Here:
Title: Charming or Good looks?
Did you hear the buzz? Malen is looking for a special someone! I can’t believe she’d trading off charming with good looks? Isn’t that unbelievable? I honestly thought that she was more for the good looks! But charm? What would you do with charm if it’s achy achy to kisss a guy? It’s just unbelievable! Do you believe it?
Hehehhe! Let me summarize the basic phrases that you can use and then fill in the blanks:
- Did you hear …
- I can’t believe..
- Isn’t that …
- I honestly…
- What would you …
- It’s just unbelievable…
- What would you?
So you see, what I listed completes your entry sobra pa nga dahil that’s 7 sentences already. Hahaa
Keep social climbing alive! Write some more!! HAHAHA
ahahaha…i’ll remember that…parang alam ko kung saan yan pwedeng gamitin. FILLER!!! ahahahah..smartness! gagawin ko yan sa kabila
HI!
I was planning to blog same topic as yours but i don’t have much time and my computer broke down…
Usually when i come to work i can see beautiful sexy girls with rich but not good looking guys…
i thought that girls who are beautiful and sexy are social climbers but NO… they are just looking for a guy who will love them dearly…
there are some instances naman na my mind is filled up with many many ideas pero am not just in the mood to write about them…
when am going to/from work, lalo na when I’m travelling alone, sa jeep..sa bus…dun lumalabas yung mga creative juices..but I tend to forget them most of the time
weird but usually, nakakapag sulat lang ako when I have my dashboard open.
BORDS!!! 30 mins in the shower?? I can imagine, you must be doing a lot of things there hahahaha…
Yeah, money. Why didn’t I think about it? Some people talaga will marry for MONEY lang…mga anak ng NOKIA user friendly yan!!!!
Well if you’re smart, I guess, money can come easy, divanetch? Sobrang rare ng money + charm + looks. kung meron man, they’re definitely taken. lol
uyy ganyang-ganyan ang style ng mga writers..i don’t practice that…takot akong maglabas ng cellphone noh. hahaha
sabi ko nga, i can only feel the urge to write when i have my dashboard open…LOL
korekted by!!! hahaha…kakayanin ko manay basta kaperahan..yun naman ang puno’t dulo nun. LOL…
salamat sa TAG..I’ve been getting a lot of traffic dahil sa entrecard na yan…oks na oks
yes you are!!!
basta you carry yourself well, PATOK! looks can be very deceiving diba…you can be very gwapo at the same time, nakakatamad kausap..i remember nun college, may classmate kami nun na i dunno kung anong meron,hahaha, andaming nag c-crush..*crush ko din kaya* and he turned out to be the KILABOT ng batch…while yung mga boys naman, asar sa kanya…hahah
ahaha..blogging to the next level ka na..congrats!!!
hahaha..korek mamah! iibahin na natin ang taytol
BE CHARMING INSTEAD, IF YOU DON’T HAVE LOOKS, BODY AND POCKET TO DIE FOR!!!
HAAYY…i’m having problems with my theme..I spent my whole Sunday changing my template pero di ko pa din mahanap yung perfect one! hilong hilo na ko..hehehhe
tita megaaaaaaa
hahaha…mas maganda ka yata sa kin TITA MEGA. Nagmamaganda lang aketch, but your beauty, genuine talaga – it shines from within! ECHOS!! anak ng nagbobolahan tayong dalawa netch?? SUs, ako pa ang manlibre eh ikaw ang kumita ng 250,000 pesoses sa kaka blog!
naniniwala ako dear! hahah…part tayo ng MINORITY!!!!! ahahahaha
naninibago din ako pero talagang love ko yung first template ko eh…might change template ulet…next time na at baka masira ko na naman tooo hahahahha