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An open letter to ex-boyfriend, finally.
8 Dec2007
Dear YOU,
I know you’ve been reading and following me here all this time. Though you do not make your presence known, I feel in my heart that you still check on me once in a while and I wont deny that it flatters me. It’s been many many months since we saw each other. I would love to hang out with you again, why not. We’ve been friends for such a long long time and it’ll be fun to fool around with my ex-best slash boy friend. You know we’ve spent so much of our lives together and I’ve always felt that those years of my life will never leave me…all the things we’ve shared will be in my heart as long as I live.
Truth is, contrary to what you’ve been thinking, there is no pain anymore. I’ve found peace, finally. I have accepted it already that God made it happen for us. Not that I didn’t suffer at all, but you know me, more than anyone else, you know how strong I am. You probably don’t have any idea how it felt to die a hundred times, believe me, you don’t wanna go through that. I have stayed with you for so long and I have forgiven your fooling around over the years. I have been on YOUR side constantly, defending you from the people who made you look bad. I have even defended you from your own family and I didn’t want to stop believing in you, in us…but bad things happen to good plans.
All the time that we have been together, you have been busy fooling around with so many girls. Now, don’t deny it. I definitely can prove it. That’s how I learned the art of stalking. There was X, Y, X again, Z, Y again..Z again, and many others you have met along the way (this i’ve found out from your not so loyal friends). Even if it was painful on my part, I kept trusting you, believing somehow that someday, you’ll change but you’ll probably never gonna change. Your being a playboy/two-timer is incurable. Last time that we were together, I knew it was goodbye forever. We sure had lots of happy times but our love is not just meant to be. I shall not wait for you to come back because I wouldn’t wanna live in hell with you again. I have stopped loving you a long time ago. It’s all over and guess what, I don’t feel bad at all. I could even look at you in the eye and say right in front of your face that I do not love you anymore…and probably don’t care at all even if you die from a motor crash. Ok, that’s too harsh, I don’t really mean it. I still do care but not as much as what I used to share with you before.
You were the only beautiful man for me, for such a long time. My eyes were all set on you alone. I loved you for the longest time. Despite my being faithful, loyal, understanding and loving, you still have broken my heart into pieces. I’ve given you CHANCES and yet all I got in return was more pain and agony. I don’t deserve that.
Anyway, this will be the 2nd Christmas without you and I’m more than happy to celebrate it without you around. I’m trying to get what i can to spend time with some people who’ve been part of my life which includes catching up with people I’ve lost touch with through the years because I have prioritized you.
I hope you finally find your happiness because I have found mine. In fact, I am having the best days of my life ever…without you. And I wish you and your someone else, whoever/whatever she is, a not-so-merry christmas and not-so-prosperous new year! I am not bitter. I’m just merely saying that I think you deserve to suffer too. Ok, that’s too harsh again. It’s just unfair that I haven’t heard anything bad happened to you yet. The last thing I heard was you went abroad and got married while I, along with my arrogance, is still here, blogging my heart out and letting the world know how pathetic and loser I am. I leave it all up to God. I still believe that what goes around, comes around.
But between the 2 of us, I know, aketch ang nagwagi.
I’d like to thank you, still, for breaking my heart again and again because you made me feel how it is to die so I can fully appreciate how it is to be alive and whole again.
Not-so-sincere,
ME
*insert nose and heart bleeding here*
- In: Love & Life| Raves & Rants
34 Responses to An open letter to ex-boyfriend, finally.
jojitah
December 8th, 2007 at 10:23 am
i’m glad that finally… you let all that bad feeling out. it’s good for the soul mare. i’m also wishing your ex a no-so merry xmas and a not-so happy new year, and may he
rest find peace.i love you mare!
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jojitah
December 8th, 2007 at 10:26 am
eeekkk!!! rest lang ang binura ko mare!
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diwatang_byaning
December 8th, 2007 at 11:03 am
you are so harsh ever-ever-ever! lol…
bagay tayo Malen… mwah dahil nasa iyo pa din ang last laugh *huling halinghing* bwahahaha…
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pusa
December 8th, 2007 at 11:03 am
wow! it felt good right? saying all these things out loud… it only means that you really have moved on which is good for you girl! i know exactly this kind of feeling, been there done that ika nga, we were just so unlucky to come across someone who’s not worthy of us =)
i would have written something similar to this for my ex but i would include thanks for leaving me, i can now wear stiletto heels coz before if i do wear one, people think that i have a dwarf beside me! LOL.
y’know what? i’ve told my ex he can rot in hell for all i care when he wanted to get me back, i dont forgive easily and i admire you for being able to do so, you really have a gold of heart
you have the last laugh gurl… good riddance to him stupid fool
ay di ko pala blog to!
i love you 
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angelofthewaters
December 8th, 2007 at 12:39 pm
I’ve been thinking, is it R or J?
After all this time that we’re together, I havent seen your pain. It only means that you’ve been keeping it too close to your heart for us to recognize it. Hmmm…
But I am not worried at all, I know you and know how strong you are. Kala mo lang indi…pero meron, meron, meron. este oo, oo, oo.
Don’t worry Len, feeling ko, last Christmas mo to na member ka ng, Samahang Malalamig ang Christmas.
Labz yah Len!
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antuken
December 8th, 2007 at 1:06 pm
i hope your ex really gets to read this. the letter just goes to show that you’ve really moved on. a goddess like you deserves better. i’ve enjoyed being single, for a long time. you get to own you time, no worrying about what your s.o. would like to do, or whether he had plans for you to go out, that you tend to not join your friends/family when they go out coz you maybe he had plans. (nakanang, nahihirapan ako mag-engrish diyosa. kelangan ba talaga engrish ang comments?) january is sooo far-away. nosebleed ito. have a fun & wild christmas without him. masaya naman di ba?
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reyna elena
December 8th, 2007 at 4:20 pm
WEEEEEEE!!! AKING AKIN NA SI MALEN!!! YEAAAHHHH!!!! Apply na tayo nang joint credit card! Kelangan ko nang credit card this weekend!
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reyna elena
December 8th, 2007 at 4:21 pm
I’ve been thinking, is it R or J?
HEHEHE! alam ko ang mga tanong na yan! HAHAHAHA!!!
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mogli
December 8th, 2007 at 7:51 pm
This is what I call closure! Congratulations!
Don’t you feel guilty about being nasty on him. Sabi nga dun sa dashboard ng jeepney sa amin, “Friends can be lovers but lovers can’t be friends.” Cliché but true, right? So ok lang, okrayin mo pa! (ano bang english sa okray?)
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malen
December 9th, 2007 at 3:35 am
BORDS!!! Pahiram muna:
“Kung tutuusin ay ayaw na nga nya sa relasyon namin. Eh, ‘di kung ayaw na nya, eh ‘di ayaw ko na rin.
Pero sana nga ganoon lang kasimple ‘yon. Pero hindi, eh. Kahit ibigay pa sa akin ni Lord ang lalakeng may pinakagwapong mukha at pinaka-panalong wankata sa balat ng lupa, tanging si ex pa rin ang iisipin ko.
Naiiyak na naman tuloy ako. *hikbi*
AHAHAHAHAHAHHA!!
Ang galing galing ng mga litanya mo bords! 
pero yan yata ang hinde ko isasapuso ever
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malen
December 9th, 2007 at 3:47 am
HOYYY!!! I am forever yours noh!!!
LOL mag Pa-Pasko na…yung package namin wag mo kakalimutan ha! SPAM! SPAM! SPAM! tsaka size 6 ang paa ko. pakisamahan ng jansport. GAP tsaka victoria secret na pabango. pati Jergens. LOL
Umuwi ka na, pakasal na tayo.
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malen
December 9th, 2007 at 4:00 am
haneeep!! english to mare!! hahahaha. ang galeng.
I completely agree with you, mi amiga. No pressures, no worries, no headaches. Pure fun fun fun!!! But it would be nice din to have someone to love and hold once in a while…I’m not saying NO to that pero right now, I’m living one day at a time..enjoying to the maxx levelyshus…loving my FREEDOM!!! Hehehehe
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malen
December 9th, 2007 at 4:22 am
Ruty, nope, it’s D – as in Dao Ming Su!!! check check email Hahahaha.
Reyna ELena, is it O, D, J, C, M, A, B or L?? Andami!!
or is it ME you’re looking for??
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malen
December 9th, 2007 at 4:27 am
Waaaahh. Thank you dear CAT. Whew! Mabuhay ang mga bitter oooppsss I mean better women dahil iniwan ng mga jowakers!!! o basta, tayo ang nagwagi, tapos! Tayo ang winnertsina!! 143 mare..thank you ever sa support dear.
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malen
December 9th, 2007 at 4:30 am
Harsh ba? Hehehe…he is now my beastfriend!!! LOL…basta nasa atin ang huling el bimbo!!! wahahahha
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malen
December 9th, 2007 at 4:46 am
hehehe, trulili mare. enough na of extra baggage, reservation and martyrdom!!! hahaha
i love you too mare! tenchu!
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reyna elena
December 9th, 2007 at 5:09 am
Pamasko? Hmpt! Kelan ang divorce?
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reyna elena
December 9th, 2007 at 5:12 am
Naku MOGLI, relate ako ever sa sinabi mong: “Friends can be lovers but lovers can’t be friends.”
Nong umuwi kasi ako, di alam nang mga asawa kong si Malen at Ambo na nakipag-break si Dondon saken, which is boylet number…. teka lang ha? number…. 3. Ayun 3. *tama ba* (dobol check-cross check), mali, number 4 pala.
Anyway, nakipag-break dahil me sawa na na me anak na dalwa at sya tiga-alaga at yung misis eh japayuki. Ganun.
Sabi ba naman, kung pede daw maging magkaibigan na lang kami – so may i say ko exaktimo na sinabi mo.
Pero. Nung umalis, mega cry pa rin ako, kasi, gusto ko pa rin syaaaaa!!!!
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chuva
December 9th, 2007 at 7:59 am
after you go, I have a lot more room in my closet. after you go, I can stay out all night long if I feel like it… and when you’re gone it seems like things are gonna be a lot easier….
BUNOT MARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! buti na lang hindi yung lyrics sa itaas ang drama mo. ibig sabihin, hindi ka na VICTIM, at hindi ka na LOSER – - WINNER!!!!!
they say ika nga, “You grow up the minute that you laugh at yourself.” – - diba? Siguro nasa isep mo na ngayon, “Ano bang kinabaliwan ko sa ungas na yan?! E pretty ako masyado?!!” Hehe!! Congratulations Malen at *BOW* ako sa pure inglesessesssss!!! shet – dumugo ilong konetch!!!!
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reyna elena
December 9th, 2007 at 8:02 am
hehehe! bwisit! nakasak sak tuloy sa utak ko yong kantaaaa!!!
~~~i can see it in your eyes!!!
~~~i can see it in your smile!!!
~~~you’re all i ever wanted….
well… except Ob, Do, Je, Ch, M (sinong M?!), Am, B (sinong B?!) at sinong L ?! Maaaa! Di ko na yata kilala ang mga to! Lasing na naman ba ako nun?! Me listahan ako nang imbentaryo ko nohhh?
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malen
December 9th, 2007 at 6:56 pm
Chuva, FLANGANAAAAA (pahiram hehe)!!! Hahahaaha!!! Winnertsina aketch! Flanganaaa ka talaga! Trulili!! Tenchu tenchu manay chuva! mukhang naka relate ka masyado divanetch? hahaha…para ka posporo palito ang lahat ng itooooo!!!
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malen
December 9th, 2007 at 7:00 pm
yay! wiz kayang divorce ditetch davah…soo WALA! NEVAH! lol
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malen
December 9th, 2007 at 7:02 pm
anobeh…edi aketch!!
M = MALEN, L = LEN…
hahahahah
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JeanGrey
December 9th, 2007 at 8:38 pm
sarap sa pakiramdaman noh pagkatapos mong naisulat yan….
heheheeh nice sarap maging malaya!
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Amor
December 10th, 2007 at 12:46 am
While reading your post, I can’t help but sing “you made me stronger by breaking my heart…… Don’t feel so sorry for me….Oh, don’t you know I’m not the one at the loosing end”
I can relate to your feelings. In my younger years, my heart were almost literally broken into pieces, as my exbf impregnated his other woman! Friend nya lang daw yun ha. Kapal talaga! I had no choice but to leave him of course. I haven’t seen him for years. If ever our path would cross again, I don’t know how I would react, but I would definitely show him how happy I am now. I am grateful I did not end up with him, my life would have been miserable.
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malen
December 10th, 2007 at 8:16 am
uyy, neybor, mukhang naka relate ever! hahaha. it feels good, tanananananannnn!!
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malen
December 10th, 2007 at 8:37 am
mi amor!! naka relate ka din ba ever? oh really, najontis nya? mas matindi yata yun. buti na lang you didn’t end up with him. naniniwala aketch na once a babaero ang isang guy, he’ll always be babaero for the rest of his life! LOL…lagi nating isasapuso na winnertsina tayo mare!
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iya
December 10th, 2007 at 2:22 pm
haha ayos. inggit ako. makagawa nga ren ng open later para kay ex bufra. kaso lnag pupunuin ko lang expletives yun. ahehehe.
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janis
December 13th, 2007 at 6:04 am
Love letter ko ba toh? sobrang naka-relate ako
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rhapsody
December 16th, 2007 at 8:39 pm
can’t believe na di pala naging happy ang lovelife mo before… hindi halata kasi sobrang happy ka lagi at mukhang walang problema… i’m happy for you (kahit may konti ka pa ring bitterness hehehe) at least you got over him.
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jazz
March 23rd, 2008 at 11:27 pm
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dclocktix
April 27th, 2008 at 3:12 pm
nah? di he really hurt you that way or did you hurt yourself that way?either way, you allowed it to happen right? so savor the happy moments and celebrate the learnings…
mare, birthday na ng inaanak mo sa may16…paramdam k naman…hehe…
here’s one for the bleesings you have and will have, and another for the blessing that you are…muwah!muwah!
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chescka
August 20th, 2008 at 12:02 pm
there is a bit of bitterness kc if wala na talaga sayo u wont write such that or even wouldnt care to write at all..
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