What is that special element that changes his thinking from “She’s fun” to “She’s The One?” Here are few lessons on how to make your man fall for you. Deeply. Madly. Truly.
A shared sense of humor is essential
No matter how much you love someone, your life together will get dull if you can’t laugh your way through it. Choosing someone who can let go with a good belly laugh, especially over the same things you find funny, is a win-win situation. It ensures you’ll have an animated, lively life.
Disagreements can help you grow closer
Challenge your date to live up to certain standards, though, and you’ll gain even more points by showing you’ve got a backbone—and that he will become a better person as a result.
Respecting someone’s interests creates greater intimacy
Everyone needs a personal passion or two; otherwise life can become unfulfilling. Allow your partner to find inner satisfaction this way, and he will be happier with life, himself and with you. As far as spending time together, remember this: It’s quality, not quantity that matters. A person who values you, who makes the most out of the time you spend together and doesn’t whine about separation, is a grown-up. That’s someone to plan a life with.
Accept his flaws and all, and he’ll love you for it
Each of us has bad habits and wants to be loved in spite of it: It’s all part of being human. It’s not that women shouldn’t speak up if something that truly bothers them, but that they should do so gently and be at peace with the possibility that he may not change. Tolerance is vital in a relationship. It’ll help you and your partner share days together that feel safe and comfortable.
Men go gaga for low-maintenance gals
High-maintenance women who need to be wined, dined, and paid attention to every moment will wear a guy out.. So before you insist on receiving flowers every month or going to the most expensive restaurants in town, ask yourself: Do all these trimmings really matter if you’re with someone you truly adore? He will adore you all the more when he sees he can kick back and be himself.